Heart broken? Well, it is such a common experience that most of us are well aware of it. Life usually does not unfold itself the way we want it to. Certainly, there is no point lamenting or brooding over what has happened. May be it has happened for something good. It is better to accept the truth and move ahead.
I know, whatever I am saying is not that easy to practice. Trust me I too have gone through the same bitter experience and know how difficult it is to sustain the balance and maintain a steady lifestyle in such cases. Nevertheless, what I understood is nobody is indispensable, neither you nor the person whom you want. Life is a struggle, we all have to encounter it all alone.
However, it is not that easy to stop thinking about that special person in your life all of a sudden. It can never happen in a day, a week or a month. It requires a lot of time, patience and determination.
The best way to divert your attention is to get yourself busy. Engage yourself in activities that you like doing. Rather than being obsessed about your feelings, get your mind to work.
Friendship is like a balm that often heals those scars left by Love. Be in touch with your old pals, spend some time with them. Friends help to identify ourselves when we are lost. They add a meaning to our life when we are upset. Enjoy their company.
Give some time to yourself. Try to go for a complete makeover. Bring some changes in yourself. You can go for a new hair cut or even can take a weight loses session. Changes will make you feel better. It will help you to regain your confidence.
Time is the best medicine in the matter of hearts. So, be patient and believe in yourself. Nobody is asking you to forget the love of your life. Just keep him aside for the time being. This will help you to grow and understand your priorities in life.