You might often experience that you and your girlfriendÂ end up fighting over your attitude.
She might be worried about your constant interference and domination in all aspects of her life. On the other hand, you might feel it’s your right to know everything about her life.
In simple terms, you girlfriend might feel that you are one over-possessive boyfriend.
Sometimes, these attitudes are done intentionally and sometimes these occur unconsciously. However, whether you are aware or not, sooner or later this tendency will snap off your relationship.
In today’s world, everyone is protective about their independence. Whether it’s you or your girlfriend; both of you need some space of your own.
And if you value your relationship; then it’s crucial that you try to overcome this trait of over-possessiveness. Here are a few ways to do the same:
Ask yourself some simple questions and check whether you fall in the ‘over-possessive’ boyfriend territory. See if you lose temper whenever your girlfriend does not answer your call. Also check if you get worried and suspicious if she does not inform you about her outings.
If you watch her talking to another guy, do you feel your anger surging up? These are the vital questions you must ask yourself. And if the answer to them is ‘yes,’ then you should start working on your attitude.
Ways to reform
Always remember, that suspicion and mistrust can ruin the most prosperous relationship of your life.
So it is necessary that you learn to accommodate and adjust. If you really love your girlfriend, then try to sustain your trust upon her.
Don’t question her in a commanding tone, if she misses your call or does not inform you about certain matters. Remember, she might need a bit of personal space as well. There are subjects she might wish to keep personal and you must respect that.
Instead of fighting out, try to be understanding. Tell your girlfriend mildly that you are concerned about her and want her to be happy. Don’t fret if you see her with another man.
Remember, she would not be with you if she didn’t love you. And if you maintain the correct attitude, she will only come closer to you.
If there is love and trust on your side, then sooner or later your girlfriend will confide in you.